TENKAN Mange tror det er en teknik - men det er en sand intention.
At være nøjagtig og korrekt giver held. Man skal ikke krydse det store hav.
En gang blev jeg givet navnet ”Adjutor” – ”Den der hjælper”, at vise omsorg og kærlighed mod trængende.
Jeg opdagede imidlertid at det kun opbyggede min egen selv opfattelse.
For at komme fri af denne glorifiserende selv opfattelse var det nødvendigt at indse at hvert menneske selv har mulighed for at bede om hjælp ud fra sit eget indre.
Gennem den indre vejleder opstår der spontane handlinger og venlighed.
At være ”nøjagtig og korrekt” svarer til ikke at rådgive i situationer hvor en andens ego kræver opmærksomhed. At undlade at handle vil sige at afstå fra give den indre opmærksomhed, fordi den kun vil give næring til det lille ego.
Høflig og beslutsom tilbagetrækning er alt hvad der behøves.
TENKAN some think it is a technique - but is is a true attitude or intention.
To be accurate and correct. Do not cross the great water.
Once I was given a new name “Adjutor” – “the one who helps” – to show compassion and helping the needed.
I discovered however, that it only was supporting my own “self-understanding”.
To come free of this glorified self-understanding, it was necessary to acknowledged that every human being, have its own possibility of asking for help out of its own inner self – or “the master with in”.
Trough this inner communication manifest spontaneous actions and kindliness.
To be “accurate and correct” I needed to refrain from counselling in situations where others ego demanded attention. To refrain for action means not to give inner attention, to use the “small no”, because it only will give power to the ego.
Polite and decisive resigning is all what is needed,
